Good Player Award - FAIL
When extrinsic rewards are used to motivate children, like gold stars, stickers, prizes and events, the intrinsic desire and excitement for that act diminishes. Extrinsic rewards, while temporarily increasing enthusiasm for a task, actually do the opposite - they are extremely detrimental to the child’s allowing him/herself to develop a natural intrinsic taste for the action, task, or lesson.
The following is a study conducted by Mark Lepper with preschool children, aged 3 to 5 years old who loved using markers to draw.
Basically, the kids who were shown a reward for using markers ended up NOT WANTING TO USE THE MARKERS ANYMORE (even though they originally loved coloring with markers)! If you want to suck the joy right out of learning, add a reward to the task.
This well-known study can be shocking to conventional teachers and parents accustomed to using simple rewards to motivate children. Star charts for getting potty training our kids, Target’s $1 prize bins, treasure boxes, candy, trophies, money for chores or good grades, paper certificates - all of these come hand in hand with ‘motivation’ that the mainstream parent or teacher may be at serious odds with how to rectify and reverse it. Even children themselves now may be accustomed to accepting these rewards and may struggle to do their work without it. Don’t worry. I will also share tips on how to reverse this.